{"id":3893,"date":"2013-11-12T19:28:17","date_gmt":"2013-11-13T02:28:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/politicalhat.com\/?p=3893"},"modified":"2013-11-12T19:28:17","modified_gmt":"2013-11-13T02:28:17","slug":"fighting-discrimination-against-biological-fathers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/impeachreno.org\/politicalhat\/2013\/11\/12\/fighting-discrimination-against-biological-fathers\/","title":{"rendered":"Fighting Discrimination Against Biological Fathers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Men who raise the children they have sired, and do to in a monogamous relationship (<em>i<\/em>.<em>e<\/em>. Marriage) with the mother of said children, ought to be supported by society and our cultural norms and mores.\u00a0 It is a family with both a mother and a father that provides an optimal environment for children, especially their own biological offspring.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3894\" title=\"dad and child\" src=\"https:\/\/impeachreno.org\/politicalhat\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/dad_child.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"317\" srcset=\"https:\/\/impeachreno.org\/politicalhat\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/dad_child.jpg 640w, https:\/\/impeachreno.org\/politicalhat\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/dad_child-300x297.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 320px) 100vw, 320px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Yet such a man is facing <a href=\"http:\/\/joshlevs.tumblr.com\/post\/65567442495\/why-ive-filed-an-eeoc-charge-against-time-warner\" target=\"_blank\">discrimination<\/a> from his own company, by denying parental leave for a new child <em>because<\/em> he is that child&#8217;s biological <em>father<\/em>:\u00a0 &#8220;all parents of new children have the option of 10 paid weeks off \u2014 except biological fathers.&#8221;\u00a0 As a result, he has filed an EEOC charge against the company that discriminated against him.\u00a0 This discriminatory effect is due to two policies:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;The first: Women who give birth get 10 weeks off, paid.\u00a0 The second: Women or men who have babies through adoption or surrogacy have the option of 10 weeks off, paid, to be caregivers to their new children.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;But under no circumstances can a biological father get 10 weeks off paid, even if he is needed for caregiving.\u00a0 We get two weeks of paid parental leave.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;(If there\u2019s an adoptive couple in which both parents work for [the company]\u2026, they can divvy up the 12 weeks as they wish, with neither taking more than 10.)&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><!--more-->&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Therein is what makes this unfair.\u00a0 Men who are not biological fathers can take advantage of the full ten weeks off.\u00a0 For example, if a gay couple adopted a child, they would get ten weeks off, just as a traditional couple would if they adopted.\u00a0 But a gay couple could not have a child between them, like a different sex couple can.\u00a0 While it is possible for a gay man to be a biological father, two gay men in a committed relationship can never have a biological child between them.\u00a0 This rule does not apply to women:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;Here\u2019s one an attorney gave me: If I were a woman, but other elements of my situation were the same \u2014 I was still with the same woman (so that would be a same-sex relationship), and she gave birth to our child, legally I would have to adopt in order to be co-parent.\u00a0 I would then have the option of 10 weeks off, paid.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;With illegitimacy quickly becoming the norm, <em>punishing<\/em> men who raise their own children is beyond ludicrous, and quickly transcends to an assault on our civilization itself.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Men who raise the children they have sired, and do to in a monogamous relationship (i.e. Marriage) with the mother of said children, ought to be supported by society and our cultural norms and mores.\u00a0 It is a family with &hellip; 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